RCIS

Comunicarea interpersonala si comportamente de distantare in familia violenta

Autori

Madalina Constantin

Editura

Lumen, 2006

Cod CED: 1584-5397-12(05)
Dimensiuni pp. 59-71

Abstract:

Generally speaking, in the families, the communication represents that process which takes place conforming to the specific social models for every society. These structures of communication are proper only for the family system. The levels and the styles of communication make the difference between a family with difficulties and the normal ones. The communication is an interaction, a behaviour, a redefinition between the partners. The members of the family are involved in cross talk introducing news elements, to eliminate the painful elements, to correct the mistakes, showing the feelings and interpreting the answers, giving advices, solving the dilemas. The cause of the marital conflicts is the disabled communication between the members of the same family and in the couple. The violence which means the impulsive behaviour of the parteners, the infantilism is a result of the wrong communication. Most of the families affected of domestic violence has major dificulties in communication and the verbal violence and the psychological one is the main weapon of the aggressive partner. 
Comentarii: In cadrul familiilor comunicarea reprezinta un proces care se desfasoara corespunzator unor modele sociale proprii fiecarei societati. Aceste structuri de comunicare sunt insa, adecvate specificului fiecarui sistem familial. Nivelele comunicarii si stilurile de comunicare proprii fiecarui sistem familial diferentiaza, impreuna cu alti factori, familiile cu dificultati de familiile normale. Comunicarea este o interactiune, o conduita, o redefinire continua a relatiei dintre participanti. Membrii familiei schimba continuu informatii introducand elemente noi, eliminand elementele dureroase sau necesare, corectand greselile, comunicand sentimente si interpretand raspunsuri, oferind sfaturi, rezolvand probleme. Cauzalitatea conflictelor maritale este determinata de cele mai multe ori de deficientele in comunicarea intrafamiliala in cadrul cuplului. In mod paradoxal, violenta, comportamentul impulsiv al partenerilor, infantilismul, este un rezultat al comunicarii deficitare, insuficiente in cadrul cuplului. Majoritatea familiilor care se confrunta cu fenomenul violentei domestice intampina dificultati majore de comunicare, iar violenta verbala si implicit cea psihologica este in general principala arma a partenerului agresiv.